썸

It was only a few days back where I learnt what 썸 (sseom) means from a colleague. Apparently, it is used to describe a relationship where there is "something" going on, where the pair is more than friends but not quite dating yet. Not sure if I am using the word correctly in my context … Continue reading 썸

Mistakes made and lessons learnt

Between guys with multiple commitments but still make efforts to plan & come down each time and guys which barely try to catch up even after work responsibilities end, it could seem very obvious the ones who are the better long term decisions. Perhaps it's due to my poor decision making skills, or it could … Continue reading Mistakes made and lessons learnt

Rounding up 2018

As 2018 draws to a close, I would like to reflect on my year with 3 questions that I received in a newsletter: 1. What is the most important goal that you achieved this year? Given that life is a journey and there's always things to be improved on, I wouldn't say that I have … Continue reading Rounding up 2018

Twenty-four

Celebrating 24 years of existence! To be honest, I never quite understood why we celebrate birthdays. We aren't particularly important people. Lately, however, I start to appreciate that birthdays are also be seen as a celebration of the little things in life. With that, here's a quick recap of my year: General: 11 months after graduation … Continue reading Twenty-four

Communicate expectations

I have never had a boyfriend even though I went out with a few guys - the first one when I was 20 and ended things with the latest one about 2 months back. Even though things never worked out, there's actually lots that I have learnt from them. The most important one being, always … Continue reading Communicate expectations